How can couples establish shared goals according to the Gottman Method?

Couples can establish shared goals in the Gottman Method by discussing individual aspirations and aligning them. This approach emphasizes the importance of understanding each partner's personal desires and dreams, which lays the foundation for creating a shared vision of the future together. When partners openly communicate about their individual goals, they can find common ground and identify areas where their aspirations overlap or complement each other. This collaborative process not only fosters connection but also enhances mutual respect and support for each other's dreams, ultimately leading to an enriched partnership.

The other options do not effectively contribute to establishing shared goals. Prioritizing one partner's goals can create resentment and imbalance in the relationship, while arguing about differences often leads to conflict rather than collaboration. Ignoring personal desires negates the individuality of each partner, which is crucial for a healthy relationship; fulfilling aspirations should come together rather than be suppressed.