What does the outer oval represent in the Compromise intervention?

In the Compromise intervention of Gottman's Method, the outer oval represents the flexible areas. This visually illustrates the dynamics within a couple's conflict resolution process. The flexible areas are aspects of a disagreement or issue where both partners can be open to adjusting their positions or finding a middle ground.

By identifying these flexible areas, couples can focus on negotiating and making concessions, which is crucial to reaching a beneficial compromise. This approach encourages collaboration and highlights that while certain core issues may be more rigid or emotionally charged, there are often aspects of the situation that allow for flexibility and adjustment, fostering a spirit of cooperation and understanding.

This visualization helps partners realize that not every element of their conflict needs to remain fixed, promoting a more constructive dialogue that can reduce tension and promote positive relational outcomes.