What is the purpose of deepening questions in conflict resolution?

Deepening questions play a critical role in conflict resolution by helping to clarify misunderstandings. In the context of Gottman’s Method, these questions are designed to encourage partners to elaborate on their thoughts and feelings, allowing each person to better understand the other's perspective. This process helps reveal the underlying emotions and concerns that may not have been initially expressed, promoting a more thorough exploration of the conflict.

By facilitating greater clarity, deepening questions can aid in identifying the root causes of disagreement and pave the way for resolving issues more effectively. Ultimately, this enhanced understanding creates an opportunity for couples to communicate more authentically and compassionately, which is essential for building a stronger and more resilient relationship.