What role does the therapist play during the Atonement phase?

During the Atonement phase in Gottman's Method Couples Therapy, the therapist plays the critical role of facilitating discussions and guiding the healing process. This phase is about helping partners acknowledge their pain, express feelings, and ultimately foster forgiveness and understanding. The therapist assists the couple in navigating through difficult conversations about trust and betrayal, allowing them to openly communicate and process their experiences.

This facilitative role is essential because it creates a safe environment for both partners to express their emotions and understand each other's perspectives. Through effective communication and support, the therapist helps the couple to work through the complexities of their relationship, paving the way for reconciliation and rebuilding of trust. By focusing on facilitating discussions rather than providing judgment or education, the therapist empowers the couple to engage in meaningful interactions that are essential for healing.